Lets Chat about Money mindset.
This is one of my favourite subjects and I believe that they are of huge importance.
Mindset in general is a huge topic, is essential that we are able to train our emotional intelligence to have a life that we want instead of continuously reacting to what is happening around.
Do you react or respond to life?
What does your response to the actions of other tells you? about yourself?
I know right,
these are questions some of you even got annoyed with, however it is essential that we learn to take ownership, only then we will understand.
Nothing happens to you without your input, even if just energetically, you had contributed to it, and yes this is a reality hard to accept or even grasp.
Let`s jump straight into an EXERCISE:
I will ask you to write down what is money for you, how do you feel about money. (do this exercise before you see the next).
Take some time here, write down key words, the first things that come to your head when you think about money.
These are some examples of what comes up to some people:
- Money is good or money is bad
- People with money change
- People with money are stuck up
- If I have money I cannot be loved
- money feels good
- people who have money are unhappy
- the act of having money feel great
- money is hard
- You can't get rich doing what you want
- I can't keep money (comes and goes)
These statements we have created or adapted from others are limiting beliefs that stop us from getting our desired goal.
How you feel about money is your blueprint and shows in your reality, in your results.
You have created this blueprint growing up, from your primary socialisation and your experiences and others around you.
You get the money you believe you are worthy getting, the same way you have the life you believe you are worth having.
Right,
Now I want you to change the word MONEY to ENERGY and see what you have written.
Remember money is ENERGY,
and unless you create a healthy and peaceful relationship with money you will continue to struggle.
Lets go back and find clarity some of those unwanted beliefs you have created:
- when was the first time you recall hearing about MONEY? (recollect this moment in detail)
- How was the relationship of your parents (primary careers) with money?
Did you used to hear things like:
To have money you have to work very hard
money does not grow on trees
you have to safe if you want to have money
You see, our subconscious receives all information at all times without filters, as growing up the things we see, hear, smell, taste, touch, are engraved and create our blueprint without us even being aware of it, and then that part of our brain dictates our behaviour, what we attract or create in our reality.
now is time to change that story.
Re-write the story of what you want, make a decision here and now.
You re never to old, to bold, to late, everything can change at any poin tome.
Yesterday is gone, mind you a minute ago is gone, tomorrow is not promised and all we have is TODAY, therefor FOCUS and create what you want.
TIPS to shift your mindset around money:
- Do this exercise often
- Re-write your story
- Surround yourself with those that are where you want to be
- Practise gratitude
- Create a vision Board
REMEMBER:
Money isn't a game of bad boys and anyone can have it, it all depends on your blue print and the way you manage your money. Some people are already strengthen and have a huge belief on themselves naturally, other were conditioned otherwise, that does not mean they can't change as change is part of evolution and all is possible in the world we live in.
Real stories:
When I moved to London, I had a friend, we were both single mothers, both working (she had a higher salary), we both used to smoke.
She worked very hard, long hours, always paid her bills, smoked the cheapest cigarets, never travelled, never brought anything for herself, she was constantly struggling financially.
I always paid my bills too, work scheduled was great Mon- Fri, smoked the most expensive brand, was always buying stuff for myself, traveling all the time and doing what I loved, never looked at "I am struggling with money".
What I am trying to say here is that is all about mindset, with the years of me installing this mentality on her, she eventually started caring for herself more, buying staff for her regularly, going on holiday, self care, go out and eat and she still getting the same money, however her quality of life improved.
Another example was one of my dearest clients, she was so afraid to spend money to buy even the simpler things for her such as meals and tea, after her mindset shifted, she explains that now she has her belongings as she likes, she is trabeling and buying flowers regularly to her apartment and her finances have not change, yet she is able to do much more.
Having money is having a blueprint where you know you are worthy of and being able to manage your money to grow and work for you, instead of you working for your money.
NUA Academy has welcomed the newest team member Filipa Pinto, a Money Coach, help you towards Financial Freedom, remember too book your FREE session, she will help you managing your money, create a plan to achieve money goals, such as save, step the ladder.
Having money is a matter of you making that decision,
yes money does grow on trees, however is not solely for some people, is for everyone that has the guts to want it and have it.
Wishing you a great week
With Love NUA xx
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