The power of letting go.
- Nov 1, 2021
- 3 min read
Letting go is indeed one of the most desired topics, last month we touched superficially on the importance of focusing on what you want on IDENTITY MASTER training inside the Membership.
Lets see this from a different perspective.
When you are holding on to something that is causing you some sort of negative emotion that is what you are focusing on right?
What you focus on grown - if you are focusing on something that hurts you that is going to grow. Miracles happen when you no longer care, pay attention, or simply not focusing on it.
Some of you are constantly holding on to grudges, judgment, a specific situation that happen, overthinking etcetera...
You must let go of the emotion attached to each, of the need to have it your way, of trying to understand, of wanting something else.
LISTEN, the only way to jump to a better place is to completely shift your attention somewhere else, where it feels good, and we talked about this on the YAS CALL on the 28th - we also did an exercise which helps you shift your current belief to a more beneficial and powerful belief.
6 Steps to help you letting go:
1- Awareness
2- What role do you play where you are
3- Stop the blaming game
4- Accept what is
5- Detach from what could have been
6- Forgive yourself
1- AWARENESS
This is the first step at anything you want to do with your life, start something new, meet someone, create or break a habit, ANYTHING.
Really you cannot move anywhere without being aware of where you are, because:
- whats unresolved will come back to bite you
- to plan the journey you must be aware of where you are
Just like when you can a Uber, to know where you are going he also needs to know where you are.
2- THE ROLE YOU PLAY
Is time you look at the role you have been playing in your life, are you a the creator or you are simply reacting to life?
Why are you where you are?
What could you have done? What can you do?
3- THE BLAMING GAME
Often times people are so used to point fingers and BLAMING everyone else and everything else but often fail to do step number 2 ( understand the role they play)
TAKE OWNERSHIP for your actions, let me remind you, you create all, attract all and manifest all, therefore you have the power, stop giving it to others.
4- ACCEPTANCE
To truly be able to let go you must accept it, remove any feelings of lack, frustration, judgment, envy whatever it may be.
Accept things for what they are, either you accept it or not, abstain from having a view that you want o hold on to. Accept
Acceptance is like whatever is meant to be will be, from your heart, no emotions attached, no need for an outcome, no wanting, nada.
5- DETACH
And so you can fully accept you must detach from the idea of what could have been, we tend to be so involved with potential, that we fail to see things for what their are.
*Also whatever it is now does not mean it will always be like this, circumstances don't matter (stay tuned inside the membership more is coming on this subject).
6- FORGIVENESS
Yes this one is the most challenging one, we held the blame to someone else or something else other than us, we struggle to forgive, yet have we really looked at ourselves and understood the real reason why we are holding on?
Look within and start confronting your demons, is okay to forgive yourself, you must start with yourself remember?
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