1. PAIN IS TEMPORARY = Don’t make emotional decisions due to momentary feelings… Things change all the time, we cry today, we smile tomorrow, and chances are we going to regret it, or feel really unhappy with the decision we made.
We must NOT believe we will never overcome a hard/sad moment.
Thought Creates a Belief, and Belief creates habit.
2. YOU NEED YOURSELF MORE THAN YOU NEED ANYONE = Ever heard a sentence that goes “if you don’t love yourself no one will”? Yes that’s right!!
You have to cherish and love yourself daily, not sometimes, but ALWAYS, EVERY DAY!
Only you have the power to make a change in your life, no matter how great that coach is or how on point that diet plan is,
If you don’t have the right mindset, the persistence and consistency
Nothing will change!
No matter how broken you are, if you don’t get up and confront your demons,
Nothing will change.
You have to consistently work with yourself daily because
Only You can create the life you want to live, no one else can do that for you.
3. YOU MATTER= whoever made you believe you don’t…
Please re-read the last reason!
Of course you do matter, you matter to you, you matter to your family, to your children and to those dreams you haven’t achieved yet.
Don’t ever think you don’t matter, once you start caring about yourself you will be able to see, feel and understand this!
YOU MATTER
4. THE WORLD NEEDS WHAT YOU HAVE TO OFFER = There are 7.5 billion people in the world, certainly there’s always people that need what you have to offer.
That dream, those skills and talents you have, whatever it is, the moment is now, go out there and do it.
Don’t let your dreams die with you, let them live even after you no longer here!
5. YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION TO SOMEONE = Haven’t anyone told you yet?
If you don’t see it yourself, then look at those little eyes when they look at you!
Your children admire you, they want to copy everything you do, want to follow and be you all the time.
There are also the others, some are silent some are happy to let you know how much they admire you and how you inspire them
Believe, enjoy and inspire!
6. YOU ARE WHAT YOU BELIEVE YOU ARE = Only you have control over your life, your actions and everything that comes primarily from you.
You cannot control others, what they do, what they say
however you can control how you react.
Others have no power over your feelings, your actions or where you are in life, you do!
If you are not happy, do not blame others, get up and change that!
7. LIFE IS A GREAT EXPERIENCE = I know life can seem so daunting and repetitive at times with the chores and daily routines, but it does not always have to be that way.
Once you understand your purpose, and you are aligned with your emotions, you start looking at things in a special way, admiring every little detail, especially when you have kids, then you are so lost falling in love each day by all that motherhood entails and so much more…
Don’t just exist… enjoy the journey, get involved, explore, admire, learn, teach, fall in love…Live!
8. THERE IS ALWAYS A WAY = Be positive, believe!
You will never have a burden heavier than you can handle.
Look for the positive things in the negative experiences
learn and be grateful.
Like in the movies the bad never wins… as dark as things may seem.
In every negative experience there is always a positive message!
9. LIFE IS TOUGH, BUT SO ARE YOU = Once you know what you are made of, you start looking at life with different eyes.
You will only know how strong you are once you have to be strong, and you will be strong.
But you will also be understanding, caring and loving towards yourself.
You will not carry pain along with you, instead you will carry experiences, both positive and negative.
Experiences build, teach and elevate your being, they are what you have, they are who you are, they are your story, your tears, smiles all that happen in between you and where you are today
Giving up was never an option why would it be now?
10. There would be a less happy home without your smile in it :)
