Are you honoring the most important RELATIONSHIP in your life?

Heya Ladies,

How is it going?

Today I was called to talk about,

the core of everything I teach and do.

And I will start with a really important question: (answer with honesty)

Are you honoring the most important RELATIONSHIP in your life?

Yes...No?

Right,

Let me ask you another question:

Which relationship is that?

...

The one with yourself!!

YES!!

Totally, sometimes take time for us to get it,

or to actually realize how IMPORTANT and WORTHY this is for our personal transformation.

But girl,

and if I tell you this is the TOP secret for all the unhealthy patterns you cannot leave behind,

the vicious cycle that it impossible to break,

For the constant feeling of being LESS than...

MMM TELL ME MORE

Society nowadays make us believe in so much stuff,

that gets to a point where you don't know what you truly believe

You feel confused

or you go with the flow...

Sometimes is easier than standing to your truth.

At the end most looking for fame.

Others just looking for who they are in the middle of all this social media, can and cannot do's and beings...

Meanwhile,

You turn the TV on and there it is a super curvy and "hot" body, no cellulite and worries...

Straight away our brain says: " Why don't I have that?"

well lets go further...

"my life sucks"

and there we go, we are being fed

by others beliefs and images of beauty

and making it ours...

Start feeling insecure about how we look, even doe we are the most beautiful being...

We see #couplegoals everywhere and start doubting our relationship,

even worse start doubting our capability to have a healthy and amazing relationship, just like others appear to have and flaunt over social media.

And for the single woman that have no kids and finds herself looking at her friends who are married and have kids and wonder that maybe is time to settle down.

Guess what that married woman with kids looks at you and wonder: "I wish I had her free time"

Is easy to see what others are doing and instantly we are comparing with ourselves to seek some validation,

we compare ourselves to others to know how "well" we are doing...

Instead of listening to ourselves.

To what we crave the most

To what makes us truly happy (and the money cannot buy)

To who we are beneath all the filters

And how we connect with ourselves.

Well what we need is to create the relationship we so much desire for our life with ourselves!

Why?

Because when we Respect ourselves as we would respect our partner

when we date ourselves and get to know ourselves as we would know our partner,

we learn the connection we need to feel complete and anyone coming instead of being your happiness they become an ADDICTION to your happiness.

Is like marrying ourselves and go through the process of

Loving, Respecting, Adjusting and Honoring ourselves in such a way that when the time comes what is meant to be for you will gravitate to you...

HOW CAN THAT HELP ME?

Being in touch with who you truly are detached from any need or attachment will help you to prepare yourself for the right relationship, and be ready for such commitment,

it will help you to confront the difficulties of actually being in a relationship can cause between your inner being and your new life.

It will help you to communicate better and understand your emotions and why actions were taken in a particular situation by allowing you to respond in a healthy way.

These are some of the reasons why creating the best relationship with yourself is super essential for you to succeed emotionally, physically, financially and spiritually.

A Loving, caring, respectful relationship is where you are accepting, adjusting and embracing yourself so you can HONOR the person living in your body.

Check the List Below for ideas on how to honor yourself:

- Loving yourself unconditionally, it does not matter what you have been through, or who likes you or doesn't, You must find what is in you that you admire (babe dig deep)

- Accepting and forgiving your past experiences,yourself and others

- Embrace Your body (you are unique and were perfectly created)

- Eat and drink healthy (this is loving your body)

- Healthy habits and routines (this is loving your mind and spirit and your being)

- Be aware of your connections, who you exchange energies with, when we are in contact with other we are constantly exchanging energies.

- Learn how to say NO (this is not selfish, is honoring yourself)

- Respect your wishes, wants and needs (this is loving yourself)

- Stop listening to everyone's voice, yours is the one that matters the most, learn how to listen to your inner self by:

- Being silent

- Being by yourself

- Allowing clarity to flow

- Being comfortable with the REAL you.

These are some steps that can help you create a strong relationship with yourself at any point in your life.

Are you hearing a call to become more?

To trust more?

To love yourself more?

START TODAY!

Pick one task from the List and work on it Everyday for a minimum of 21 days and then add another!

Share with us your transformation at @mamawomanwine or @nadinhadias. Lets all celebrate it together!!

Contact us if you need any support.

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