All about Love and relationships: Questions answered.

Heya,

How are you doing?

This month we celebrate love, we celebrate ourselves, our individuality,

And this post is dedicated to answering questions that all of you have sent about Love and relationships:

Read the Questions and Answers below:

What is Love?

Today talking to a friend she said to me "I love X but I have to let go..." and I asked her how do you feel with the thought of letting go?, and this is what I believe defines Love.

When you have a physical reaction from a simple thought,

Love can be defined in many ways, everyone is different and believe in different things and the beautiful thing about love is being able to respect these differences.

I love you because I love you and not a condition of an act or what you can do for me.

Love is accepting one another by who they are without trying to change them into our preferred ways, "I love all of you".

Loving is being close to God, is caring for others without selfishness, in other words, understand the actions of others as a reflection of themselves instead of acting out of our desire...

Can you love unconditionally?

I have loved,

Deeply I did, once.

A pure, blind and unique type of flaming emotion that has led me to many roads throughout my life, either I was running away from it or going towards it.

I have learned that yes we can love unconditionally, Love is not something you can condition, either you feel it or not.

What is conditional is your actions towards that emotion,

Would you forgive cheating?

This is a subject rather difficult as it differs in many situations and everyone has a different way of looking at it. I have forgiven before when I was younger and I have learned that once you accept something you are expected to always accept it.

On a different occasion, I have ended my relationship for the same reason, it was a hard decision due to the fear of failure, however, I couldn't have made a better choice.

When you accept cheating you are accepting to love yourself less and less and that is something I decided not to sign up for.

Do you think a relationship can be the same after cheating?

NO!

well, there are exceptions to the rule and I have heard some relationships become stronger due to a lot of communication and Love from both sides, however, a lot of changes when cheating occurs.

We women change, we might not want to let go but nothing will ever be the same.

Can you build an honest relationship without TRUST?

No, nothing is ever the same.

Breaks, are they good for a relationship?

Interesting Question, If you are considering a break (like a time off) maybe you might need to re-think your relationship, saying this, is important that a couple have their individuality respected such as time alone (mini-breaks, outings with friends, alone time), yes it is super important that you respect each other's needs of silence and distance (in a healthy way).

What would you do for Love?

Anything that will not affect my self-love - I am an endless romantic soul.

Can you love two people at the same time?

- I believe that you can have love for two people but not love them with the same intensity. Loving someone is unique when you Love you know you love them.

Can you stay without talking with someone you love?

NO, unless circumstances,

When two people that love each other stay in the same space and ignore each other is just crazy, I cannot understand how does that work.

Pride shouldn't ride our relationships.

What is the best advice you would give others when it comes to Love?

Find your truth and love insanely

Be truthful, honest and communicate, when there's love there is a way.

What would you like for Valentine's Day?

I love surprises, and small things are defo my thing. I love being appreciated, taken care of and deep chats.

It doesn't need to be valentines day for this.

What is the most important aspect of a relationship?

Psychology says that having intimacy, passion, and commitment at the same time creates a base of a healthy relationship and I believe to be true.

You need romance (intimacy and passion), compassion (intimacy and commitment) and fatuous love (passion and commitment), to create consummate love where you are building a relationship with a strong base.

I would say that intimacy is really super important, it brings you together in ways that commitment and passion alone cannot.

Communication and loyalty are also in the most important boxes.

Reflections:

This Post was really incredibly inspiring, as made me go deeper into this subject, I have dedicated myself and my vulnerability to answer each question with my true belief.

I am that girl that still loves like the '90s, and yes I do believe that Love is important in a relationship, and that people when they want o to be together they work things out.

I also believe that you should never be in a predicament where you have to abdicate from who you are, what you want and your self-love to be with someone. When there's love, there is commitment and understanding.

I want to thank each and every one of you who has sent us the message, keep sending them.

I wish you all to give in yourselves without being afraid, and feel what love can give you.

You that are still waiting for your prince charming, be ready he's on your way...

Wishing you all a great week ahead

with Love Dinha xx