Heya Beautiful,
As we are in the month six of the year I thought we could pick our brains about something important to keep us focused, shall we?
Right!
Let's go...
How many of you are leaving for tomorrow what can be done today?
Oh ok, You are.
How does that feel?
You know most days I wake up and used to feel frustrated that I was not doing enough.
as a result, I kept finding new challenges,
what else makes a woman's heart race...?
aha yes, Love, passion, the fulfillment you name it.
I find myself being a mother of a teenager, a baby, a Psychologist Major, an NLP, Hypnotherapy, and Reiki practitioner, along with being a dance and mindset coach - I call myself a multi-passionate Entrepreneur, oh yes not forgetting a forever student!
And YES I AM A MOTHER.
I often sit, laugh and question myself: what the hell am I doing?
But there are some habits that just belong to you.
I do believe we can change habits, although this is what makes my heart race (in a healthy way).
Going back to my feelings of frustration, when I was clearly overdoing stuff such as work, uni, gym, motherhood, trying to be perfect in all areas, (clearly understanding now how hard I was on myself,) I was looking at my life and believe I was not doing enough until a friend called what I was doing "over achievement", This made me stop and reflect.
This was so strange and confusing to me, consciously I always believed in my value, However, unconsciously childhood experienced carried on throughout the years with me, and manifested in areas that I was visibly excelling on and I unintentionally downgraded my efforts and accomplishment or ignore.
This is due to the rooted belief that I had.
Have you ever hear Freud's theory? - that what happens to us in our childhood affects us in adulthood.
Right we obviously overlook the importance of experiences in our present lives and tend to say that's psychology talk... You are right!!!
This is one of the reasons I continuously invest in myself, attend self-development seminars, connect with a coach, stay on track, study, research, serve others along with everything else a human does.
My aim is to become a better version of myself daily!
Because when I am at my best I can serve from a place of love allowing them to be their best version and what we put out is reciprocated...
This is mine why!
Now I ask you: What is yours?
You might now say to me:
I am not affected by anything from my childhood or else.
And I am happy with who I am, What I have, and How my life is.
And I will say to you, that is marvelous, means you are following your purpose and are in alignment.
If you feel that this is you, share your story with us in the Badass women Interview, because there are many that would benefit from your story (send me a message and I will send you all you need to be part of the interview)
Remember that we can resist change and acceptance, however, we cannot run away from the truth either we accept it or not, either we act upon it or not.
So Time to play a game shall we?
Can you write in a paper:
- what are your biggest fears? (pick 3)
- Do you know why?
in the paper for each fear explain the reason why.
- How do you see life?
- What do You have to change?
With Love Nadinha xx
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