Questions answered: Is your happiness dependent on a relationship?

Heya,

Love and Relationships: Questions answered.

I have received all your DMs, emails with amazing feedback, questions and comments and I will be posting answers to them on the blog...

I want to say that I am really grateful for your participation and that I am delighted to be able to be part of your transformation.

Question:

- Is your happiness dependent on a relationship?

NO, Big NO...

I believe that this is one of the biggest mistakes that humans make.

Before you are in a relationship you must be happy with yourself, happiness is something we already have within us, and all someone else does is a projection of what you already have within you.

Happiness

Relationship

Being dependant

People can do anything to make you happy.

They may want to be domesticated, may want the same things that you do,

also adore you how you adore them, however, no one will want to always feel responsible for how you feel.

Everyone is responsible for their own feelings,

How do you imagine a perfect relationship?

"Look at me, I need your undivided attention..." No, you don't, You'll soon get suffocated and scream for your space.

The best relationship are two independent people that meet each other because they are truly CONNECTED and WANT to be together.

No games needed.

When you present yourself as someone who mostly feels good and is not dependent on someone else for your happiness, you are attracting exactly what you are, energy doesn't lie, therefore don't fake it.

You need some balance, to be stable, be someone who mostly feels happy and is not dependent on someone to be happy!!

No one needs to "behave" to make you feel better, instead, you need to learn how to connect with your inner being and always how you want to feel, giving unconditional love (to yourself and others), not being dependent on someone else actions to make you feel any type of way. When you put your mood or happiness in the hands of someone else you are signing up for despoilment and your emotions will not be stable because people are unpredictable.

And let's be honest, we all have some selfish traits (some less than others), as we "want" something to feed our ego, our emotions, to make us feel good, free or happy...

As humans we tend to be in our feelings, so we react out of our emotions and sometimes we say and act out of character as we are out of alignment. And so in the moment we want so desperately that the person does something to raise our vibration thus making us feel happy... which is an illusion because happiness s already inside you.

REMEMBER: Nothing kills a relationship more than having to compromise who you are. Be you and allow your other half to be themselves, focus on loving, on what feels good and great, either you stay or you leave, don't change the person or allow the person to be your happiness.

When you get in alignment with what you really want everything is well.

Everything that you ask for you receive, whatever your life looks like you are manifesting.

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Love & Light

A mama Coach Nadia xx

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